Qualities in a friend~ (By Reima Hiroshi)

Hiyaaa everyonee <(^-^)/ hope u all had a lovely day > <

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"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”

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Well we all know what friends are... they are the people who are by your side.. They are the people that you are fond of, with whom you talk or spend time... I mean all of us in life need friends... there might be people who say that they don't need them.. but that is not true as we humans are social animals.. we need a company no matter what....so denying the fact that friends aren't important is pointless..

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Did you ever wonder tho that why a certain person would say that they don't want a friend..?They say experience is the best teacher so most probably in the past that person might have a bad history with friends... I mean its natural if we get betrayed by a friend for example... we wouldn't wanna make friends anymore as we have just lost the faith in that quality of loyalty in friendship (here I mean serious friendship e,e like best friends who are literally like siblings u,u and have admiration for each other >.>)

Meaning that we choose our friends based on the qualities they possess .like in the example above we would avoid ppl who aren't trustworthy.

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Welp here are five important Qualities to me that I would certainly want a close friend of mine to have.. 

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1#They Are Good listeners

it is essential for a friend to be a good listener for me tbh. If your friends feel that you do not listen or have any interest in their lives, they will not confide in you. Without the ability to listen, your friendship will be shallow. So I guess both friends should always listen to what the other one has to say and try to give them an advice if needed <33 p="">

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2# They Should Respect ur Choices

This is when sometimes people think that ' becuz we are "friends", I need to know everything in your life' I mean no tbh... everything has its own limits and good friends should respect that.... invading someone's privacy isnt the right thing to do... in fact, if someone disagrees sharing their problems we shouldnt take it in a pessimistic way , we should be understanding and instead pray that they attain the courage to go through that. u,u

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3# They Always Keep Your Secret Between You and Them

This Quality matters a lot to me tbh...if I befriend someone... I trust them with my secrets, my flaws, my weaknesses and my fears, I mean you cant keep something in you forever so u really need a close friend to talk to about your situation.. but what matters to me the most is that the person I told things to keeps it. This also forms a wall of trust and loyalty >~<

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4# We are Completely Comfortable

Being Comfortable around a friend willingly is really important tbh, nothing to hide, no lies, no judging each other , etc.. looks don't matter, nor does the weirdo topic we talk about... what matters is the warm bond of friendship that we share... I'd always want my friend to be super comfy and open to me about anything and everything. They feel like family <(^O^<)

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5# They Pray For Your Well Being

Anyone would love to have a friend who is truly Committed to you, They want you to be successful, live your dreams and they will not just hope it... they will help you make it happen... they will support you to reach your goals and actually be happy for you, Similarly in bad conditions... They'd share ur sorrow and help you get through that...they might not be able to solve ur problems, but they promise that you won't face these hardships alone~

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Other Qualities like Honesty, Loyalty, Caring nature,Kind, protective, etc are the most obvious ones so I guess everyone should have these? <,< (Like thish cute lama \(^O^)/)

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> What are five most important qualities of a "close friend" to you?

>Which one of the Qualities described in this thread is most important to you?

>A person you can call a "best friend"

Have an amazing day~ ^O^